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008 | Grey Rock: A Boundaries Tool for Narcissism & Toxicity

008 | Grey Rock: A Boundaries Tool for Narcissism & Toxicity

Update: 2025-07-23
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What do you do when compassion, logic, and vulnerability don’t work? If you’re stuck dealing with someone who is consistently hurtful, narcissistic, or thrives on chaos – especially in situations where you can’t simply walk away (like coparenting or toxic work environments) – you need a different kind of boundary.




In this episode, therapist and author Molly Davis Moon shares a powerful harm-reduction strategy called Grey Rock, a method designed to help compassionate people protect their peace in high-conflict relationships.


 


Check out Molly’s website: www.boundaried.com.


Download Molly’s FREE Grey Rock PDF (for pod listeners only): http://boundaried.com/greyrock.


Learn about the Boundaries Breakthrough Mini Course.


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Visit the We Are the Compassionate Revolution pod page.


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In this episode:



  • Learn why your instinct to explain, empathize, or fight back might be making things worse.

  • Discover how to stop feeding the drama and quietly reclaim your power.

  • Find out why Grey Rock isn’t about punishment – it’s about protection.

  • Understand a crucial safety caveat if you’re in a physically unsafe situation.


 


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008 | Grey Rock: A Boundaries Tool for Narcissism & Toxicity

008 | Grey Rock: A Boundaries Tool for Narcissism & Toxicity

Molly Davis Moon